Teaching Your Child to Organize
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As
a child grows, his world expands. At first, the walls of his home confine that
world. But within those walls the number of things begins to increase
— clothes, shoes, toys, books and so on. As soon as your child can walk, talk
and understand you, it’s time to help him learn about being organized.
When
he starts school, his world is going to expand beyond home. And that means more
things arrive on the scene, such as school papers, projects and things that
help children have friends and fun.
Organization
is one more thing to teach your child, but the effort will seem worthwhile
after you start noticing the benefits.
How
do you teach organization? Here are some guidelines:
Provide
the necessary tools your child needs to become organized. And
be sure to explain that every person needs organization, regardless of
age, personality or interests.
Observe
the results of your child’s efforts. She needs to know her tasks will be
checked. This also gives you the opportunity to praise her for a job well-done.
Create
an organized environment at home that your child will benefit from, such as an
arrangement of healthy snacks in the pantry.
Be
an example in your responsibilities. Take care of the mail or return phone
calls in a timely manner.
Learn
about some common mistakes to avoid.
Include
your child in the process as much as possible when something needs to be
organized. Even though it takes longer to help a child do the work — and even
though you may have strong organizational tendencies and want things done the
“right” way — your child will benefit from being included.
Notice
the way your child prefers to organize things. While one of your children may
have been born knowing that everything should be in its place, her sister may
be the type who miraculously finds whatever she needs in her overturned room.
Both of these are examples of varying approaches to organization.
—
Jean Stephens
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